Creating joy around the holidays for yourself
Making the holidays enjoyable for yourself is all about being intentional with how you spend your time, energy, and resources, and not feeling pressured by external expectations. While it’s easy to get swept up in the busy, social, and often overwhelming nature of the season, you have the power to create a holiday experience that truly nourishes you. Here are some ideas for making the holidays more enjoyable and fulfilling for you: Focus on What Brings You Joy The holidays don’t have to look like a Hallmark movie or the picture-perfect social media posts you see online. Instead, think about what truly brings you happiness and peace. Is it cozying up with a good book? Spending time outdoors? Cooking your favorite comfort food? Find small, simple pleasures that make the season feel meaningful to you, rather than trying to meet others’ expectations. Tip: Make a list of things you enjoy…
C-PTSD and PTSD. Similarities and differences
Understanding the nuances between C-PTSD, PTSD, and Trauma As a mental health professional and the owner of Mountain Valley Counseling, I often encounter individuals who struggle with the effects of trauma in various forms. Two terms that frequently arise in my practice are Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) and Complex Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (C-PTSD). While both conditions stem from experiences of trauma, they manifest differently and can lead to various emotional and relational difficulties, including anxiety and depression. Understanding these differences and similarities is crucial for effective treatment and healing. PTSD is typically caused by a single, traumatic event, while C-PTSD is usually caused by long-term or repeated trauma. C-PTSD can develop from childhood trauma, such as abuse, neglect, or witnessing a kidnapping. It can also be caused by other types of trauma, such as living through war, being a prisoner of war, or experiencing chronic intimate partner violence. Often people…
Small group practices vs. big tech. A good old fashioned David and Goliath scenario.
The Value of Small Group Practice in Mental Health Therapy: A Perspective from Mountain Valley Counseling owner Misty Newman, CMHC By Misty Newman, CMHC In recent years, the landscape of mental health care has seen a significant shift with the rise of teletherapy platforms like BetterHelp. While these services offer convenience and accessibility, they often reduce therapy to a mere transaction—a commodity in a marketplace driven by profit. As the owner of Mountain Valley Counseling, I believe that true mental health therapy transcends this transactional model. Instead, it thrives on the strength of the therapeutic relationship and the nuanced understanding that only a well-trained therapist can provide. The Dangers of Commodifying Mental Health The commodification of mental health services is alarming. Venture capitalists have recognized the profitability of therapy and have pushed for solutions that prioritize rapid, low-cost access over genuine healing. However, mental health care cannot be adequately addressed…
Mental Health and the problem with “quick fixes”
Why Mountain Valley Counseling Emphasizes Deeper Healing At Mountain Valley Counseling, our mission transcends merely addressing the immediate concerns of our clients. We believe in the importance of delving deeper into the underlying issues that contribute to presenting problems. While short-term therapies can be effective for some, they often fall short in facilitating profound self-understanding and addressing the root causes of distress. By utilizing approaches rooted in psychoanalytic, psychodynamic, and depth psychology traditions, we aspire to support clients on a journey toward lasting change and emotional well-being. Understanding the Limitations of Short-Term Therapies In today’s fast-paced world, there’s a significant emphasis on quick fixes and immediate results, particularly in the realm of mental health care. Insurance companies often favor short-term therapy modalities, pushing therapists and clients toward solutions that promise rapid improvements. These approaches can certainly alleviate symptoms in the short term, but they frequently overlook the complexity of human…
October 10th is World Mental Health Day
World Mental Health Day: A Global Call to Action and the Role of Therapy at Mountain Valley Counseling World Mental Health Day, observed on October 10th each year, is a critical occasion to raise awareness about mental health issues globally and promote the importance of mental well-being. Established by the World Federation for Mental Health in 1992, this day emphasizes the need for accessible mental health care and aims to reduce stigma surrounding mental health disorders. With themes that evolve each year, World Mental Health Day encourages discussions, education, and initiatives to support those facing mental health challenges. The Importance of Mental Health Mental health is integral to overall well-being. It affects how we think, feel, and interact with others, influencing our ability to manage stress, relate to friends and family, and make decisions. The World Health Organization (WHO) reports that one in four people will experience a mental health…
Suicide Awareness Month
Suicide Prevention and Awareness Month 2024: Supporting Others and Self-Care September is recognized as Suicide Prevention and Awareness Month, a crucial time to shine a light on mental health challenges and the importance of providing support to those in need. This year, Mountain Valley Counseling wants to focus not only on how to support those struggling but also on the necessity of self-care for caregivers. Understanding the Context In recent years, suicide rates have tragically increased, highlighting a growing mental health crisis. Factors contributing to this rise include: Social Isolation: The COVID-19 pandemic exacerbated feelings of loneliness and disconnectedness. Many individuals are still grappling with the emotional aftermath, which can lead to increased suicidal ideation. Economic Stress: Financial instability, job loss, and the rising cost of living can overwhelm individuals, creating a sense of hopelessness. Access to Mental Health Resources: Despite growing awareness, access to mental health care remains limited…
Understanding Gaslighting and Its Impact on Mental Health Gaslighting is a form of psychological manipulation where a person or group seeks to make someone doubt their own perceptions, memories, or reality. This term, derived from the 1944 film “Gaslight,” where a husband manipulates his wife into questioning her sanity, has become a widely recognized concept in discussions of emotional abuse and manipulation. Gaslighting can occur in various relationships, including romantic partnerships, friendships, family dynamics, and workplace settings. Definition and Mechanisms of Gaslighting Gaslighting involves a series of manipulative tactics aimed at undermining the victim’s sense of reality. These tactics include denying facts, minimizing the victim’s feelings, and presenting false information as truth (Stark, 2018). The ultimate goal is to destabilize the victim’s perception of reality, thereby gaining control and power over them. Gaslighters often use subtle and gradual methods to erode the victim’s confidence in their own thoughts and…
The correlation between PTSD and ADHD.
Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) and Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) are two distinct psychiatric conditions, but they can intersect in complex ways. Both disorders impact attention, behavior, and emotional regulation, and their interplay can complicate diagnosis and treatment. This relationship is especially pertinent when considering how untreated trauma might contribute to or exacerbate ADHD symptoms. ADHD and PTSD: An Overview ADHD is characterized by persistent patterns of inattention and/or hyperactivity-impulsivity that interfere with functioning or development (American Psychiatric Association, 2013). PTSD, on the other hand, arises from exposure to traumatic events and includes symptoms such as intrusive memories, hypervigilance, and avoidance (American Psychiatric Association, 2013). The Overlap Between ADHD and PTSD Research shows that both ADHD and PTSD involve disruptions in attention and executive functioning. For instance, individuals with ADHD often struggle with sustaining attention and managing tasks, while those with PTSD may experience difficulties with concentration due to intrusive thoughts…
How new age therapies re-brand psychoanalytic concepts that have been around since Freud
How Freud’s ideas show up in new age contemporary therapy modalities Sigmund Freud, often regarded as the father of psychoanalysis, is a figure whose contributions to psychology and psychotherapy have been both revolutionary and controversial. While Freud’s theories have faced significant criticism, it’s essential to recognize that many modern therapeutic approaches and psychological theories have built upon, adapted, or even rediscovered concepts originally proposed by Freud. This essay explores why Freud doesn’t deserve the bad reputation he sometimes gets and argues that many contemporary psychological practices are deeply rooted in Freudian ideas, albeit under different names. Freud’s Legacy and Modern Adaptations Sigmund Freud’s work laid the foundation for much of modern psychology, particularly in the realm of understanding the unconscious mind and the therapeutic process. Freud’s theories, such as the role of the unconscious, defense mechanisms, and the significance of early childhood experiences, have profoundly influenced the field. Over…
Pros and Cons of psych talk
The Importance of Mental Health Dialogue: A Therapist’s Perspective In recent years, discussions around mental health have become increasingly prominent. This shift is visible across media platforms, workplaces, schools, and everyday conversations. As a mental health therapist, I’m often asked whether the increased focus on mental health issues signifies an overemphasis or if it’s a necessary and positive development. To address this, it’s important to examine both the progress made and the potential challenges associated with this heightened awareness. The Evolution of Mental Health Awareness Historically, mental health issues were shrouded in stigma and misunderstanding. Conversations about mental health were often avoided or met with skepticism. Individuals struggling with conditions such as depression, anxiety, or bipolar disorder were frequently subjected to silence, isolation, and even shame. This lack of open dialogue contributed to a significant gap in understanding and support. The modern era has witnessed a paradigm shift. Increased awareness…